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Sunday, November 21, 2010
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8:33 AM
Okay, it's very happening yesterday. Got tons to say so I shall start from Friday night. Well, come on. It's a Friday night. Ever since I started clubbing 3 weeks ago, I didn't missed out any Fridays. But, because something happened in A's family, I didn't go clubbing on Friday. R asked J for my number so as to convince me to go clubbing with them. R texted me and stuff and I finally agreed to going clubbing with them. Cause it's basic courtesy not to reject if the person is really sincere.
Then came Saturday and J told me that Al had put our names on the Zirca's guest list. Saturday night and I'm all dressed up, waiting to go into Zirca. When I went to check for my name, I was told that my name was not there. Wtshit. It turns out to be that the person never check properly ._. After wasting like 20 minutes outside Zirca, I finally got my stamp, together with R & co. But, the problem came. J couldn't get in. She's underage. Although her name is on the guest list, she need her identity card to be checked still. She told the person that she didn't bring and she was refused entry. So, she tried to enter from the main queue. Cause that cute bouncer there recognises me so maybe she can sneaked in. But there! She was refused entry again! So, we came up of the idea of getting her to enter from @#&? . I lend her my IC, hopefully she can get in. But, she was stopped. My IC got retained by the person there so I have to go and collect it back.
When I went up to the lady (the one who checks guest list), she was like "What?!", damn loud. I smiled and I said politely "May I have my IC back?" "OH! SO IS YOUR IC LA?! YOUR IC STILL LEND HER HUH?!" "Er, may I have my IC back please?" "YOU THINK WHAT? YOU ASK ME GIVE I GIVE AH? YOU SINGAPOREAN DON'T KNOW MEH? MUST DO SOMETHING FIRST LA!" "What do you want?" "CALL POLICE LA! YOU THINK WHAT?" Then J told her, "Sorry, but we first time. Give chance can?" Then she stared at me, "YOU GOT STAMP ALREADY?" "Ya, I have." "YOU COME!" Then she pulled me to one side, damn fucking hard, and start vandalising my Zirca's stamp by stamping more than 10 times on the Zirca's stamp, damn damn damn fucking hard. Then, she was talking via the earpiece and she was describing me. As she talked, she was laughing damn fucking evilly. We stood there for like 10 minutes before she finally threw my IC back at me. Get this fact, she threw it at me -'-
Get the whole story? I know it's our fault to try to sneak in with fake ID. I know that it's illegal. But, I'm not the only person who does that right? Everyone is doing that too. Why are those people granted entry? Just because they are foreigners and we are not? -'- IF you could let a 17 year old girl go in, why can't J go in too? That girl was just queuing in front of J and she act cute with the @#&? bouncer and she got in. And J can't get in? WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS? That mother fucking bitch at @#&? really behave like a typical chao ah lian , I mean chao lao lian when she was talking to me. She was yelling and shouting at me, and behaving like a total bitch. Well, @#&? should sack her. It downgrades the reputation you see. She looked "presentable" with her super-uber-ultra-thick-like-10-layers-of-paint-on-a-mouldy-piece-of-wall make-up but her actions and words really ruin her "presentable" looks. She totally looked like an evil witch when she was vandalising my hand by stamping damn fucking hard and of course, her evil laugh.
We went back to Zirca and I was denied entry. I tried to get a re-stamp and I was questioned. I explained to the Zirca lady that the person at @#&? vandalised my stamp and stuff and in the end, I got myself blacklisted. It turns out that that bitch from @#&? already informed Zirca and my IC was taken by them, once again. We waited and finally I got my IC back and I left. It's okay, I don't give a damn. But, I just don't like their service attitute. It SUCKS! -'- Fuck you Zirca! Fuck you @#&?! It's not that there are only 2 clubs in the whole Singapore. I'm not going back there again, though @#&? used to be my favourite. Hey, it used to. Now it ain't. I got bored of the same place, same crowd anyway. After 4 or 5 times at Zirca and @#&?, it's time to change to a new place. It's your lost to not earn money from me. And, this is for you --> -'- FUCK YOU!!
R & co could jolly well get back in and abandon us but they didn't. R said that he's gonna fuck Zirca and @#&? cause we ain't coming back. Hey, he's a regular and he spends much there. So, if they lose him, I believe that they lose quit a lot. Awwww, too bad. Your daddy is fucking pissed off so you can only sit down at one corner and cry about the loss! (: Anyway, really nice and gentlemen of him to go drinking with us at Sahara. We drank shots of Blue Magic, I think. It's nice la ;) Truth or dare and of course, all of us played dare all the way. Damn fun, cause R is really a daredevil :D The way he plays is really firece. Singaporeans are really lousy when compared to caucasians :/
Overall, yesterday night was fucking bored and damn fucked up. I spent $15 cabbing down and I didn't get to club at all -'-
So what if I got blacklisted? No big deal seriously. You wanna call police, go ahead. I ain't scared. It's my first time and if you really call police, you're so gonna get yourself into deep shit. Cause, there are underage clubbers inside @#&? and besides losing money during raid, you'll lose job too. Boss confirm will kaopeh you say why you disgrace @#&? . Your father and mother never teach you manners or you don't know how to listen to them? What a disappointment! How old already still behave like a small kid. You think you loud I will scared ah? You think you threaten me I will scared ah? You think you older than me I will scared ah? Get this into your fucking head! I WON'T BE THREATENED! I ain't afraid of you! Being loud doesn't mean that you are right, bitch! Besides, I could sue you for public humiliation. AND, I'm gonna request for a law to be imposed on you. Because of your barbaric behaviour and your super-uber-ultra-thick-like-10-layers-of-paint-on-a-mouldy-piece-of-wall make-up, I suggest that go get yourself killed :D
you're MINE!
Thursday, November 18, 2010
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6:55 PM
Everyone seems to be in bad mood today. Why? Today, there's so much yelling at production. What the fuck is this? LOL, seriously can't stand it. It doesn't mean that you will win the arguement if you are loud. You will only win the arguement if your reasoning is good. Why don't people see this point? They fucking think that being loud will win. Wtshit la ._.
First, early in the morning, my chef lost his temper at Adelene and me for don't what shit. I couldn't be bothered so I just let it go. It sucks to get yelled early in the morning. It spoils my day but what can I do?
Second, it was after lunch break. Something cork up and the items for my EC (Event Catering) didn't came. My chef was raising his voice at Aiy Don and I stepped in to stop him. Oh please. It's her first time doing that kind of purchase order. And, my chef did not let us check the order form. I wouldn't say that he's the only one at fault. Both parties are at fault yea? Cause it's always negligence when certain things go wrong. He was raising his voice at me and he was scolding me for interferring. Wtf sia! Why can't you talk nicely? In the end, I won the battle. It's like duh. Cause, being loud doesn't mean that you are right.
Lastly, it was during the end of production. People want to go back home yet they don't want to help with the cleaning. Some people were asking me to help but hello, how the fuck do I help to clean the oven area when there are already so many people crowding there? "Then you can help them pack what!" Oh please, it's like already got so many fucking hands there. And, the oven area is not very big. How do I help them when I don't even have a place to stand near the motherfucking small table? "You can clean flour box and wash the trolley! It's your duties and not ours lor. " Seriously, I didn't know that it was under my duty. Now that I know, I will do my duties even better alright? NO NEED to yell -'- And, it's not that I don't want to help. I was doing my EC right? When you guys were doing your EC, WE HELPED YOU TO CLEAN UP THE MESS, ON THE PREPARATION DAY AND ON THE ACTUAL DAY. Did you guys thank us? NO. So, just keep your mouth shut. And, I did help with the cleaning of the trolley. You can't say that I just stood there and do nothing, sucker -'- And, I was told that if you are in charge of the sink area, you just clean and wash whatever shit that is there. So, why do you keep asking who used the tart shells when she already replied that she will wash it after she finished unmoulding the tarts? It's your duty to clean them anyway. Why be so lazy and keep asking? You really got her irritated and, both of you lost your temper. YELLING again and throwing of tart shells. Wtf -'-
And the last thing about this whole fucked up day is that for my EC tomorrow, it's gonna be a half day. Deli will only be open till 1pm. Although sales is not counted, our EC is already affected cause others' EC is on a Thursday ( a lot of business) and ours is on a Friday ( slow business). People get a full day while we get a half day. Omg, it's so fair to us -'- But who cares? They say that sales is not counted then so be it. I couldn't be bothered about it. As long as I did my best, who cares about the outcome yea?
The conclusion is, everyone is in a bad mood and they yell at others. So childish, and no standard. This is shitty man. No matter how frustrated you are, you don't lose your temper at others. If you do, it just proves how uncivilised you are. And, you reason with logic. You don't reason with volume. I can't be bothered to talk to barbarians. If you wanna yell at me, then get lost. I don't want to lower my standard.
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Alright, enough of the rantings. Now, get back to my EC. My group will be doing eight items tomorrow.
- Profiterols
- Paris breast
- Egg tart
- Fruit tart
- Cornflake cookies
- Chocolate chip muffins
- Macaroons (Lemon curd, Stawberry and Peanut butter)
- Tako (with corn)
What's so special about my EC items? Well, everything is petit! Isn't it awesome? You won't want to eat sweets (pastries and not the candies) that are humongous right? Especially macaroons, it's damn sweet. If it's big, you can sick of it. But if it's small, you will find it so irresistable and just keep popping it into your mouth. Haha! I'm awesome right? I came up with this petit theme. Although almost all the items can be found eveyday, the size differs! And, it's not expensive okay? Mix and match, 6 for $2. It's so much cheaper. You get to try all different items too! :D
you're MINE!
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
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10:22 PM
Emo kids everywhere. Tsk, is it still the trend to be emo? What the fuck sia. Why people can't get over things that has past? Well, this post is for those who have absolute zero confidence. You seriously need to stop those emo-ing shit and look at this beautiful world. To you-know-who, I ain't just talking about you. This is for another friend too.
Well, why bother about what others think of you? You are alive in this world not because you are living for anyone else. You are only living for yourself. People criticise you, accept it. If you can't accept criticism, leave in a own world of yours then. No one will bother about you then. You can continue to lie to yourself or whatever shit. No one cares.
If you think you suck, you really suck then. Why do you want to be a loser? The world is actually a beautiful place. Depending on your perception, your view changes. If you bother about what those childish ass says, then you are torturing yourself with their mean words. If people throw a lemon at you and suan you, you throw back a bag of lemons plus lime to suan them back. You don't LLST (lan lan suck thumb). You LLPMFAT (lan lan point middle finger at them). LLPMFAT is the way, if people criticise you too badly. If it's because of how the others see you and you lost confidence in yourself, you can go bang your head against the wall. In this way, you won't get to hear what they say about you. Learn to accept yourself. After that, you love yourself. You don't give yourself up no matter what. If you do, it's like even before the war starts you already surrender. When the enemy throw a bomb at your territory, you commit suicide even before the bomb explodes. If it's me, I'll kick the bomb back and run! I won't let them defeat me so easily.
No one is born perfect. How do people seems so perfect to others? It's because of their confidence. When you have the confidence, everything you do just seems so right. The way you carry yourself and stuff, others will just find you simply amazing. If you see all these criticism as obstacles in your life which prevent you from doing any better, will you overcome these obstacles and move on? You will right? Obstacles are part and parcel of your life. There ain't anyone who has never encounter an obstacle. People overcome obstacles and as they overcome them, they become more matured. They know how to overcome difficult situations and stuff. Take me for example. I don't give a damn about how others want to see me. Cause I seriously can't be bothered with immatured people. I ain't saying that I'm super matured or what but at least I did my best to not let them affect me.
There are times when we feel like giving up. The only thing you can do is to smile with teeth, and let the unhappiness go. Like this --> :D
You tell me. Are you going to be an artist in the future? If not, don't bother sitting down at one corner and draw circles. Even if you are going to be an artist, a good artist don't just only draw circles right? There is a difference between one who is optimistic, and one who is pessimistic. Why be a pessimist? Be an optimist! An optimist live life to the fullest, and is always happy. An pessimist live life in agony, and is always inferior. Which do you wanna be? Optimist or pessimist? After my post, if you are still going to continue being a loser and sucker, then so be it. You will find that you lose out a lot in the future. We are all so young. You have how many more years till 90 years old? Are you going to live in agony and bother about what those fuck-tards say for decades of years? You ain't right? So, come on! Give yourself a double boost of confidence! Every morning, you wake up thinking that today is going to be awesome! Even if it's a lousy day, you jut grumble about it and stop. You won't and shouldn't let it affect you for too long. You-know-who, you know that I lost $50 a couple of days ago. I got over it. Although a bit heart pain but what can I do? I just grumble and sua la! Actually, it's more than $50. Cause last term I lend $50 to someone but I never got it back. Money is secondary. It can be earn back. But, youth can't be earn back. Once it's over, it's over! Time won't reverse back for you. So, live happily everyday! By the time you die, the happy memories you have will be so much. Rather than having a truckload of unhappy memories, why not covert the unhappy memories into happy memories? In this way, when you reminisce about the past, it will be happy flashbacks!
Well, I took this effort to write a post for you two. Don't lose confidence in yourself alright? Cheers to happy people who smile genuinely! :D
you're MINE!
Sunday, November 14, 2010
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12:06 PM
I might not be the first girl you liked. I might not be the first girl you held hands with. I might not be the first girl you hugged. I might not be the first girl you kissed. I might not be the first girl you had. I might not be the first for your everything. But I want to be the first whom you would think of when you are troubled. I want to be the first whom you would share your happiness with. I want to be the first one you would think of every time you open your eyes when you wake up.
If I didn't care about you, I won't smile because of you. If I didn't care about you, I won't become so fragile. If I didn't care about you, I won't mind every little things that you do. If I didn't care about you, I won't daydream about you. If I didn't care about you, I won't remember every word you said. If I didn't care about you, I won't be jealous when I see girls buzzing around you. If I didn't care about you, my heart won't ache for you. If i didn't care about you, I won't bother asking you silly questions. If I didn't care about you, I won't want to hear your voice. If I didn't care about you, I won't want to receive your texts and calls. If I didn't care about you, I won't miss you. If I didn't care about you, I won't let my imagination run wild. If I didn't care about you, I won't feel insecured. If I didn't care about you, I won't perservere till now.
But you don't feel the same way as me. To you, I'm just a passer-by in your life. But to me, you meant much more. I kept a diary about you after I met you shortly. Then I switched to a blog which is customised for you. All those little memories, it's recorded. Now, I see no point in hanging onto this one-sided love. It's time for me to let go. All those memories, will be forgotten. Goodbye.
you're MINE!
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
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11:04 PM
Well, it's been some time since I really blog about something wow. Been so lazy and tired to blog, cause no one really reads my blog anyway. Hmm, let's see. Where shall I start?
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Alright, I shall take it from here. Let me ask, how many of you out there really like yourself? You like yourself for who you are. You like your strengths. You like your weaknesses. You just like everything about you. Out of 100 people, majority will find faults with themselves. There may be, or may not be that someone, who accept everything about themself. Well, the reason is obvious. Sub-consciously, people are always comparing with others. This "die also must compare" attitude is rooted deeply in all humans. However, there may be some who choose to direct their attention and energy on something else. Allow me to explain with a real life example. Things might get clearer then. Girls are constantly comparing everything about them with other girls. May it be looks, figure or the number of boyfriends. They just couldn't stop comparing. Students are constantly comparing results. Even if it's just a small test, they must compare the marks. (Lol! If not, they might just die on the spot!) I'm not being riduculous. I'm stating a fact which everyone knows. You must be wondering. Why the heck am I talking about all these comparing and stuff. Well, I'm just trying to say that the root of all these "comparing" is inferiority. This is what I feel. I feel that people start comparing because they feel inferior in certain ways. That's why they wanna compare something they are good at with others. Realise something? Even before others look down on them, they condemn themsleves first. If not, inferior complex wouldn't even exist yea?
Today, I was talking to my friend about going to clubs. I then casually made a remark that whether going with her to different clubs will make a difference cause I don't feel high at all. I want to dance at the podium but when I ask her along, she just decline. And I said that I don't see the point why when the podium is empty, she doesn't want to go up with me but when the podium is packed like sardine, she wants to go up. I added that the floor is already so packed so dancing at the podium will give us more space. From what I had said, there wasn't any hidden message or anything that is sacarstic. However, my friend took what I said so negatively and started to be so defensive. She said that she didn't dare to go up to the podium cause she didn't want people to look at her. She only want to go up when there are other people to hide her. I'm not as fat as her so I can go up and dance. Look, this is inferior complex. Maybe to her, being fat is an embarrassment. Hey you, I got to tell you. Being fat is not a sin yea? You don't have to bother about what others think of you. You should always listen with an open heart and mind. If it's criticism, accept it positively. In this way, you can improve. Life will be miserable if you are so pessimistic. Everything also 看不开。何必跟自己过不去？
And, if you didn't realise, I'm telling you now. You have the tendancy to lose your temper at the someone whom you feel is suan-ning you. Like today, you damaged the cake by accident and I just "OMG". You got so defensive and was like “你 OMG 什么？Just blowtorch 就可以了what. ” Hello? I wasn't even saying anything negative about you yea? It's just a normal reaction that I will "OMG". Why must you be so defensive? And, when I told you not to feel inferior and stuff, you immediately went “你很肥可是有人跟你跳舞，跟你拿号码。我没有嘞！”Well，this is a personal insult but I didn't flare up right? I know that I'm fat. So? It ain't a sin. It's inner beauty that attracts people. As I'd told you before, wisdom and knowledge is something that will last. Beauty doesn't last, unless you go for plastic surgery. You can't deny the fact that there are people trying to know you at the clubs. It's you, who push them off. You get so defensive and push guys off when they try to know you and now you are telling me that the guys look down on you that's why no one come to dance with you? Hello, what are you saying man? It totally makes no sense to me. You fend people off yet you want people to come and make friends with you? Wtshit is that man?
You may say, it's because of my personality that I can take things easily. Well, this may be true but most importantly, I love myself! I love everything about myself! Absolutely everything! There may be some things that I'm dissatisfied but I dont' give myself up. Either I improve on it, or just accept it. I accepted the fact that I have a heavy bottom. So what if I have gigantic tighs? It won't affect my life that much. Afterall, it's my tighs. Who cares about what others say? They ain't perfect too. If they can find flaws in me, I believe that I can find more flaws in them.
Lastly, I want to apologise if you seriously think that I am suan-ning you. I have to say that I am not suan-ning you but if you feel it that way, there's nothing I can do besides apologising. Learn to be more positive, and not over defensive. Yours is an case of over-defensiveness. Even if I'm not talking about you, you assume that I am talking about you cause you see the same faults in yourself and get so defensive. This isn't the way really.
Life will be better if you love yourself! :D
you're MINE!
